admin Posted August 16 Report Share Posted August 16 There are many options available to women who would like to become an SMC, these include: Becoming pregnant and carrying your own child through the use of donor gametes (sperm, sperm and eggs, embryos) Foster care and Permanent Care Adoption Depending upon which option you decide is right for you, there are several things to consider as you start trying to become an SMC. Trying to Become Pregnant Through The Use of Donor Gametes Most women who choose to become pregnant using donor gametes choose to use donor sperm. Depending on your age, fertility or medical requirements you may also choose to use an egg donor or pursue embryo donation. Single women in Australia can access fertility treatment and donor sperm through fertility clinics. First you need to choose clinic, with a donor program, and then get a referral from your GP to that clinic. Some things to consider when choosing your clinic include: Do they have donor sperm available? Not all fertility clinics have a donor program. And those that do may have significant wait lists or limited choices. What is the reputation of the clinic? What are their success (live birth) rates? How does the clinic operate? Will you have regular access to your Fertility Specialist (doctor) or a dedicated contact at the clinic? What are the different protocols that they use? Do you wish to try IVF or IUI? IVF is In-Vitro Fertilisation where the eggs are removed surgically, fertilised in a lab and then placed back into the uterus. IUI is Intra-Uterine Insemination where donor sperm is inserted into the uterus at a time when ovulation is occurring. Whilst IVF always involves the use of medication and medical surgery (including an anesthetic), IUI can also be undertaken without any medication. Success rates for both methods differ depending upon a range of factors including your age. Another option is artificial insemination, where you try to conceive at home with a known donor. If you choose to use donor sperm, there are four options available to you in Australia: 1. Known Donor – who agrees in advance to provide sperm for at-home insemination and knows the mother; 2. Directed Donor – who agrees in advance to provide sperm for a clinic insemination and knows the mother; 3. Co-Parenting Donor – who agrees in advance to share in the financial, logistical and legal responsibilities of raising the child; and 4. ID Release/Open-Identity Donor – who donates in a sperm bank/clinic setting and agrees to their identity being disclosed after offspring reach a certain age (different Australian states have different contact ages, some states have no specific legislation and the clinics operate under Federal guidelines). The option of using an Anonymous Donor (who donates in a sperm bank/clinic setting and does not agree to have any contact with offspring or recipient) is no longer available in Australia. Prior to the change in guidelines in 2004/2005 this was the only option available for many women. Foster Care, Permanent Care and Adoption If you have chosen to do Foster Care (where you provide temporary care for a child in need), Permanent Care (where you are granted long-term care of a child) or Adoption (where a child is permanently placed in your care and legal rights of the birth parent are extinguished) you will need to go through the relevant authorities in your state to become eligible. The requirements differ between states, but usually involve the following steps: Making an application to become a carer. This can be quite a detailed application, including a full history of your life and your family, ensuring you have a support network, the suitability of your home, and calling work and personal references. You may need to attend a formal training session with the relevant authority. A series of detailed interviews with a case worker. Once you are approved, you may then need to wait quite a while until you are placed with a suitable child. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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